Guest Contributors and Graduation
Today I am grateful for my father Arthur and the values he instilled that I continue to bring into my daily life. And I am grateful for my husband Darcy and the vital presence he is in the lives of his three children.
I asked them, Arthur (31), Emily (27) and Sam (20), to share some words about their dad. Thank you for these sincere shares, and the truth you each know in your relationship with your father.
I’ve learned a ton from his words of wisdom and genuine care for all of life’s situations, which is invaluable especially as I’ve tried navigating early adulthood. But the thing I admire most is that he’s never too busy to take time to listen first and talk after.
No matter what’s going on with work, life, etc., the needs of his children become the priority, regardless of the need or situation. As a Dad myself, I’ve tried to adopt that same mentality for Aaron, and I can say with 100% certainty that I’ve learned that from him. We are so appreciative of the love and care, and honestly couldn’t be luckier to call him Dad.
-Arthur-
He is understanding and listens, takes interest in grandkids’ activities, solution finder, always there-just a phone call away, big heart, wants to make his children happy and give them the best life possible.
Family is his biggest priority.
-Emily-
He always likes having a conversation about the future, and is always willing to listen to ideas or questions I have about how to go about making that future happen. I always appreciate that
-Sam-
I used the words wonderful and work in a conversation yesterday with Darcy and Emily, as we talked about marriage and family. It’s wonderful, and it’s work. Anything in life worth having is usually both.
I thought about how we, as parents, never graduate from that role. Our children evolve and so do we. It brought to mind this throwback photo at Arthur’s high school graduation in 2009:
Happy Father’s Day Darcy! We love you!
I close with others close to my heart as well. Those who have lost their fathers this last year. Those who are estranged from their father, or maybe never knew their father. Today is a painful day for some, and a celebratory day for others. Give some hugs. Live the hours ahead fully.
